But if a woman goes over and she is confident, most people back down from her. I was on between £32-34 an hour... when I left seven years ago, working as a head doorman with a lot of experience.

But be it via divorce or bereavement, everyone becomes single again if they live long enough, she said. A single tax? "It didn't even enter my brain," said Robert Macdonald, 56, from Swansea ...